Here's the deal. If you send me a message and I think you're too old, or too weird, or too dull, or that you look like a hobbit, my way of telling you I'm not interested is to not reply. Take the hint. Don't message me again telling me you've shown me your photo. I know you've shown me your photo. That's how I know you look like a hobbit. I don't want to date someone who looks like a hobbit.
That is all.